The support that I experienced to comfort me during my grief now provides me with the ability to provide that same comfort to others. As a nurse I have been accused of causing harm amongst other things when death occurs, but I understand this is grief speaking. I find it amazing that everything that I learned during one of the darkest seasons in my life has placed me in a position to help so many others.
A heated discussion revealed a side of him that I was sad to see. I spent a lot of time explaining myself because he always took things negatively. This time my explanation was not good enough and he was going off. I encouraged him to stop before he said something he would regret because I could see where things were going. Too bad his tongue was moving faster than his mind could think.
As a single mother I was so focused on being strong that I forgotten how to be gentle. I knew that I needed to let go of the resentment and anger I held towards my exes because it would forever affect my sons’ future. It would affect how I treated them then eventually how they treat others. Plus holding on to anger and resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
I know it’s a bold title, but I really want to get my point across to those who need to read this. If this blog can help one person leave a position of comfort that is slowly killing their spirit, I have accomplished my task. I believe that comfort should Read more…